The first big step

[d_lilah]

I did it. After a really bad day of constantly thinking about my ex, I decided enough was enough. I had gone out and kissed random strangers in clubs a few times since the breakup (and perhaps a little more...) but I still hung onto the hope that he might call and say he missed me. Or even apologise.

 

I met up with an old friend a few days ago, and talking to her reminded me of my high school crush for some reason. So tonight, I decided to text him. Now, I haven't spoken to him in years, and he will probably just see it as a friendly "how are you" message, but even so...I feel good about myself. It's like i've crossed the first big hurdle.

 

I would have never done this if my friend hadn't said some very wise words to me..."what have you got to lose?" My advice to everyone...try it!

[fLuiD]

You should first completely clear your head of your ex before moving on to someone else. You should also work on yourself and do at least one thing to improve yourself before getting involved with someone else.