hater13 Posted April 28, 2010 Share Posted April 28, 2010 There are many things that happened after the break up that lead me to believe that my is just plain confused about the break up and not sure if he made the right decision...I'll just explain it in a series of events lol - he breaks up with me but when I tell him I no longer wish to speak with him he refuses and basically forces me to keep in contact with him (as friends) - I try to break contact with him again saying my final goodbyes, onces again he refuses! - I tell him I want my things back (my perfume, sweaters from my uni ect.) once again he refuses to give them back. I ask why..he says they are memories - I let him keep these items and he is happy about this - He continuously tells me to stop trying to get him back ( I admit I did the regular begging business) and to move on - When I tell him I've decided to stop chasing him and am willing to move on, I've put his gifts away and deleted a folder of our pictures from my laptop. He texts "I'm glad you got over it so fast" which to me seems like a very hurt and slightly sarcastic text - I only deleted this folder because he has told me earlier that day he had deleted his as well....when I tell him I've deleted it he says "I never deleted you folder, but I'm glad you deleted mine" - He constantly reinforces how HAPPY he is, and makes mention of how sad/depressed I am... - The day he broke up with me I told him he would regret his decision, he agreed with me - he stated that he wouldn't be able to find someone better then me...he always said this during our relationship as well - When I asked to meet him for his birthday, which was a week after our break up, he said it wouldn't be such a good idea as he would be drunk. He knows how much I dislike people getting VERY drunk, as I do not drink myself - During our relationship he stopped drinking because he knew how I felt about it (I never told him he had to stop, this was his own decision)...right after the break up he got smashed on SEVERAL occasions drinking more then he normally ever would - I finally went NC when I told him there was no way I could move on if we were still in contact, he agreed saying he would do what was easier for me - I asked him..what if he regreted his decision (again)? He said he wouldn't and that he made the right choice BUT if he did regret it, it was something he would have to worry about and not me - since our NC he has been very active on facebook...leaving comments on girls pictures similar to those left on mine previously. - he did not delete me off of msn OR facebook - I broke NC once as I felt I was ready to be just friends..the conversation was brief and very awkward. I didn't bring up anything from the past what do you guys think? Is my ex confused? or just being too needy? Link to comment
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