red_sky_girl Posted April 28, 2010 Share Posted April 28, 2010 Hi there everyone ! I think i just wanted to share this thread with you..i've been thinking a lot whether to write this down or not , but as you can see i decied to do so.In fact this is very sensitive and important for me that's why im writing it.And i really would appreaciate your sincere responses or opinions. Im aware that i have some inner fears that in moments or periods when i dont feel strong or in a good state of my life they show up strongly and sofocate me, i struggle a lot fighting them.I know that they are irealistic fears, i fear things that have not happened in reality and may not happen ever.I dont have these fears always as i said...but this has been a tought perioud for me...in different ways and aspects. First i dont know where they come from ? Second i dont know why they "follow" me at times? Third im wondering whether they have to do with my childhood problmes or fears? Forth i dont know wether they have something to tell me or im just creating them myself? Fifth i dont know how to deal with them..do you? For example..i dont know why but i fear im gonna cheat on my partner when i will be in a relationship.I think this has happened to me when i have been in previous relationships...cause i wasnt happy with those relationships and i thought to end them or i always thoguth : why i chose this one , mabey i will find a better one.Do u think this kind of fear is normal?Do u think it is a mind creation or has a basis? Or i fear i will not be a good mother or a good partner....i love children by the way..but im afraid i will hurt my baby somehow and i will not be a good mother... i have other similar fears.... who else have the same problems? how do u deal with your fears? how can i deal with them ? thanks red sky girl Link to comment
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