dietpepsi Posted April 28, 2010 Share Posted April 28, 2010 There was no cheating or anything like that to cause a vindictive attitude, they don't have any reason to be mad at me, they ended it as well, it was just out of the blue. They have told me they care about me, and wishes they had never hurt me. We work together, and recently I've heard that they have been occasionally bad mouthing me, even though no one knows we ever went out? They ignore me then talk to me, rinse repeat. I recently stood up for myself and said no more, and we've been NC for a month now. The bad mouthing however had happened before that. However were in light contact during the period where i was being badmouthed. This person who said they harbored no ill will to me and wishes me the best, and is really sorry for what happened, has been bad mouthing me at work? I have never done such, so i don't understand why they would, especially when no one knows we went out? I've been nothing but mature and patient, and have resisted my every urge to "tell them off" Does anyone have any experiences to share or opinions? Thanks! Link to comment
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