Seraphim Posted April 28, 2010 Share Posted April 28, 2010 Yesterday I was going through some things in advance of moving. There was a picture of me and my dad and my brother. It appears he was cuddling us before bed time. We were very young. My brother was about 8 months, so I must have been close to 4. We all looked pretty happy at that moment in time. It was my mother's picture so I gave it back to her and asked her about it. She said " oh he cuddled you guys a lot before bed when you were really little" That set off a spark of happiness that he really does care about me.Going home a song on the radio came on and I remember him singing it with me when I was about 4 years old. I don't know, yesterday seems to have sparked in me an idea to make a bigger reconciliation with my dad. The trouble is I am moving away. I think I want to bring him to visit to my new home but my husband despises him and barely talks to him at best. I feel though this is my last chance to get close to my father. I just do not know how to go about that since we have not be in each other's life in almost any capacity in 18 years and before that our relationship was full of conflict at best. Link to comment
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