smackme Posted April 28, 2010 Share Posted April 28, 2010 Ok Going to try to make this a short as possible. Been with my ex on and off for 18 yrs. We never could get it right as kids for he couldn't commit and was always unfaithful. Back in 2000-2001 we got back together everything was GREAT except I couldn't trust him. We moved in together and all was going really well. Well, we were to move to a renatal on the beach and he made the comment of me setting up the 3rd bedroom in case he wanted to bring home some strange So I started dating and left him. He begged me to stay, stating he was playing ect... That we would have a baby whatever I wanted just don't leave. I told him I met someone that was willing to commit, had a education and steady job and left him. He followed me around for awhile even gave the guy I was with hell with his job. Than it faded. Now 7 yrs later we are back in each others lives again. I still love him, he says he still loves me but now he is 39 me 35 and here we are with the same commimt issues. He states he wants me and loves me still too. But, will not commit. He was in a bad accident and has issues from it, but here he still is flirting and hitting on 20 yr olds. He says he I make him so happy. I am with him 5 nights out of the week, we cuddle, kiss, make love, sleep together, cuddle, go to out ect... Why the commit issues, why the girls old enough to be our children? I am so confused.. I would do anything for him he is my heart. He says he doesn't want to lose me either but he will not stop with these girls even has a personal on POF where all lies down to his age. He says he only responds when he gets mail and means nothing. Please... This is a huge issue obviously, how can he love me and disrespect me when he knows how I feel. His whole family is unfaithful to thier partners is this why this is acceptable. He has only been in one serious relatuionship besides me supposivly. Why string me along but refuse to commit?The other day after I found him with a 20 yr old he told me to give him time and not to push him. He does have serious control issues, and states he will not answer to anyone! ](*,) I wish I could just walk away, but I can't. Is he ever going to grown up? Am I just comfort? Any thoughts Link to comment
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