shoxpt Posted April 27, 2010 Share Posted April 27, 2010 Long story short, I like a guy... we sleep together, he's going through a lot (work stuff) and has had bad experiences with girls, he doesn't want a relationship. he was scared that i was mad at him for sleeping together and not wanting to date. I'm cool though. We talk about it. I tell him that i understand that he's having a hard time and that i've been through the EXACT same thing (its really weird, some of the phrases he says i've said in the past like "i'm not this person", "i can't not care", "i don't feel like i'm doing something worthwhile".) I tell him that, while i do have feelings for him, I really just want to be there for him while he's having a hard time. i told him to concentrate on himself and that i'll be there for him as a friend no matter what and while i'm not in a relationship with anyone else, we can "relieve stress" with eachother. next i say that, because i like him, it would be healthy for me to activly date other people so my feelings dont get too strong for him. his reaction was confusing. he kind of stumbled over his words and used hand gestures while saying " well, i can't ask you not to see other people since i'm the one who doesn't want a relationship" then he hugged me really tight. and was kind of awkward for a while. ***also, we agreed not to sleep with other people for safety purposes. i dont know what to make of this... opinions please? Link to comment
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