tf987 Posted April 26, 2010 Share Posted April 26, 2010 Okay, so I met this women on vacation almost 7 weeks ago and she was flirting with me right and left - but now she claims she wasn't and that she is just often mistaken for flirting. Regardless.... I've tried but have been unable to get her from my mind, and logically I know that she isn't a good fit anyway, but my feelings or some irrational desire are overriding my logic and I can't shake her... I've even dated 3 other women in the past month, and it has gone well with them... but I still can't shake the flirty one... She isn't even into me (so she says) She is still hung up on her ex (recent divorce and spends way too much time with him) She is religious (something I do NOT like in a women) She is bisexual which puts me off only because it means I'd have twice the competition for her attention anyway So I know[/] that she isn't for me, yet I can't shake the thought of her... is this just that psychological desire for the one you can't have? She calls me sometimes just to talk, she sometimes writes on my FB page, and she sometimes shows up at a yoga class I'm always at, and she sometimes does these small favors or kind gestures for me... all this stuff is making it harder for me to shake my desire for her. I should be putting my energy into the others that are available to me... but thoughts of her keep me distracted. I feel like I've become somehow addicted to the idea of her... Help!! Any ideas or psychological techniques I could use? I've been trying to think of the reasons that she isn't a good fit, it isn't helping enough. Link to comment
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