Ok - Why do men always have their hand down their pants???

[CatsMeeoow]

Ok - I'll start first by saying that I love my guy dearly and in the end it makes no difference...

 

BUT - in comparison to other guys I've spent considerable amount of time with this one seems to have his hand down his pants quite frenquently...

 

1) While he sleeping mostly....

2) Lounging around house.... on computer....

 

He's not masturbating... not playing with it... but always has his hand over it! LOL! He can be awake or asleep it doesn't matter.

 

So... how many other guys out there are afflicted this heavily??? Is it like a pacifier??? How many other girls have noticed that some guys spend WAY more time at this than others???

 

I mean its not like I play with my boobs... lol!

[dc_george]

juts making sure it's still there

[quirky]

It's comforting. And I also think it's kinda sexy.

[Capricorn3]

I mean its not like I play with my boobs... lol!

Oh god, I'm getting a visual of a room full of women fondling their breasts all day long, lol.

[CatsMeeoow]

juts making sure it's still there

 

LOL - yes... that's way I'm making the pacifier analogy!

[setanta23]

Its really comforting, not a sex thing at all. You got to remember men have had a willy all their life, women only get boobs in puberty. A manss willy is his best friend through good times and bad

[sidehop]

Too funny...not sure why, I don't. I was picturing Al Bundy but with the hand over his crotch haha.

[CatsMeeoow]

Oh god, I'm getting a visual of a room full of women fondling their breasts all day long, lol.

 

You know that's what the men are thinking right now.... LOL!

[CatsMeeoow]

Its really comforting, not a sex thing at all. You got to remember men have had a willy all their life, women only get boobs in puberty. A manss willy is his best friend through good times and bad

 

I think my guy is going to print this response out in big block 2inch letters... that's a good one!

[CatsMeeoow]

Too funny...not sure why, I don't. I was picturing Al Bundy but with the hand over his crotch haha.

 

That's just it... I don't really have a problem with it but I've never been with a guy where its an issue nearly 24/7.... but I love him anyway!

[sidehop]

Now that I think about it my best friend in high school always had his hand there. He got pissed off when one of the girl on the school bus asked why he has his hands over his crotch all the time lol.

[Capricorn3]

A manss willy is his best friend through good times and bad

I want a best friend like that too! lol.

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

I think this is common, mostly when a guy feels comfortable. I don't think it is a big deal as long as he wasn't doing it when company was over or something lol.

[Sanesoul]

Oh god, I'm getting a visual of a room full of women fondling their breasts all day long, lol.

 

My husband says if he had them, he would be doing this lol.

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

I won't lie and say I don't do it some times. LOL

[FathomFear]

Yeah, it's one of those weird subconscious pacifier things. Sometimes I'll be watching TV and suddenly my hand is down there--lol. I've never done it around other people though. I have to wonder how the behavior develops.

[greywolf]

I don't know about guys, but I do it all the time. If my partner is around, I want his hand down there all the time too.

[guynextdoor]

I notice I do it quite often when I sleep. Maybe it helps me sleep better.

[Night Pumpkin]

Maybe he has cold hands.

[doyathink]

I dated a guy who did that all the time too. It kinda freaked me out. I asked him once why he had his hand on his 'blank' all the time....he said he didnt really know lol.

[CatsMeeoow]

Yeah, it's one of those weird subconscious pacifier things. Sometimes I'll be watching TV and suddenly my hand is down there--lol. I've never done it around other people though. I have to wonder how the behavior develops.

 

I know he does it without thinking about it! That's the funny part... he says that was the way he was made... his hand is the perfect shape/size to cup that thing! LOL Oh, and something about it being a "sleep button"? So obviously a comfort zone thing...

 

I had just never experienced it to this degree before... he knows I love him and I tease him about it in a fun way and he knows I'm writing this post! He suggested it cause I keep asking him why and his answers were limited!

 

 

[Taikero]

I do this occasionally, and it's because we can't realistically have a woman holding it all the time for us, and it feels good, so why not?

[CatsMeeoow]

I do this occasionally, and it's because we can't realistically have a woman holding it all the time for us, and it feels good, so why not?

 

Very honest answer!

[stingray]

Haha! I do this too but have never thought about it lol

[FreedomRing]

Hilarious thread!

 

Put my bf down as well!! Sooo strange...and it's never just sitting on the outside, it's almost ALWAYS literally inside of his pants! I think it's insanely funny! And I'm just glad I don't have one of those!!