CJack Posted April 26, 2010 Share Posted April 26, 2010 My wife and i have been separated for about 6-7 weeks now, This was her decision. As of yesterday she says she is going to file for legal separation. and to top it off, Our friend who i thought was helping us try to fix things is actually trying to steal her away, and he is 13 years older than her and has had 3 failed marriages himself. The sad part is she continues to say that he is just a close friend, nothing more. I know what his game plan is... I have poured my heart out to her asking for us to try and fix this, but she can only say "I truly believe that you are not going to change and we will be in the same boat in 6 months, and i'm not to go through this again" I have asked to seek counseling, she has agreed, but only to get help with how to deal with divorce and our 4yr old daughter, not to help fix us. The reason for the break up.....I failed to keep the passion alive, i became complacent, comfortable, knowing she would never leave. Not once in all of our 14 year marriage was i ever unfaithful. I was told for many years, DIVORCE is not an option, we can work through anything!! Well, i guess i was wrong. The more I talk to her the more mad i get , just because she doesn't see she is throwing away a 14 year marriage. What am i supposed to do? I love her with all my heart and would do anything to keep us together...And she continues to tell me " I love more than anyone, and will never love someone the way i love you" Link to comment
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