glucoze Posted April 25, 2010 Share Posted April 25, 2010 My ex, of 3 years.. Was very nasty and cold towards me when he dumped me. I loved him... With everything I had. I know I'm not perfect, but I believed we were okay. Our relationship. Guess I was wrong. turns out he was seeing this other girl behind my back and when I confronted him he blew up on me, saying terrible things like "I beeping hate you, I don't love you beep off you you beep, get the beep out of my life" For someone that despised cheating that was what hurt the most. Also the fact that he kept denying it.. We were friends but finding this out hurt. He kept blaming me that it was my fault, that I never opened up to him, that I made him miserable, that wasn't true I did open up and when I did he would ignore me or yell at me. It was cold and I was crushed. But I accepted it and knew I deserved better. Now, he decided to contact me. Got a voicemail from him saying "Britt we need to talk. Are you there? I need to talk to you" I was flabbergasted, angry! What the hell did he want?!? I haven't replied yet... I came here to get everyones advice. I am a fair person and I like to hear everyones side of the story. But this is different. He must think I am weak and that I am dying without him. Truth is I'm not. I feel relieved because my intuition kept tellin me something was wrong and I couldn't put my finger on it. I believe it's okay to cry, I gave myself the time to cry and that time is over. Time to live the good life I've been trying to seek for years, no more letting jerks run me and my life, no more crying and trying to change someone that won't ever change. It's time to respect myself and say no. Link to comment
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