Lostheart87 Posted April 25, 2010 Share Posted April 25, 2010 I just don't get it, and I don't know what I am doing wrong. And im sure you've heard this before but life just isn't fair. Up until last year I was with the woman I thought I was going to marry. Dated her for 6 years, thought we were happy, until she left me for someone else. Even now 5 months later they are still dating...so yea, what ever happened to karma? 3 months into our breakup I started "trying" to date again. Mind you I have not dated for 6 years, and before then I only had 1 other girlfriend, so my dating experience is a bit limited. The first 2 dates went ok, but they were more of a "get back into the game" thing. I was trying to get used to the concept of opening up again. Now that I fully want to date again I have been attracted to a few girls who "seemed" at the time attracted to me, but for some reason it never went past the first date or even phone calls! They gave me the complete impression that they were interested, and I never hear from them again... Now I know what you are going to say, "Didn't you do that with your first 2 dates?" Yes I did, but the thing is that I told them that I was sorry but they weren't what I was looking for. These girls didn't even throw me a bone after our dates! Worst yet, they sometimes send little texts or call me every now and then to talk which only confuses me more about what they want. So I don't get what I am doing wrong, and my confidence is being hit. How can I recover from the constant rejection? Does it just kind of go away over time? I am always nice (I am known as the nice guy in my group of friends...I am actually proud of it), I listen to them, I tell them stories and jokes...I just don't get it. I think I am a pretty good looking guy...not a hunk or anything but good looking, so whats the deal? Anybody help me? Link to comment
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