semaj612 Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 My ex last night didnt drunk dial me, didnt drunk text me, she drunk facebook messages me. We just started talking to each other again about a month ago. And last night she said in her fb message to me "so im drunk and I love you." Now first off let me state that I thought if this day came Id get those feelings for her. I do have feelings for her still but I didnt really care that she said that to me. What Im asking is if did she really mean it? And how should I respond to it, cause I dont know how to lol. I was thinking of say either "Id love me too. Bet you regret saying that","Do you really mean that" or "Thank you" Haha any suggestions? Link to comment
fLuiD Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 Just leave it be. Don't say anything or ask about it. Link to comment
cntrofthestorm Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 haha i like the "bet you regret saying that" but i don't actually think you should say that. I'm sure she does regret it. i would just ignore it. assume it doesn't really mean anything since she was drunk and if it did mean something, it will bother her that you didn't say anything and she will bring it up again herself. Link to comment
XxJustMexX Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 I would go with "Thank you" +1.......... Link to comment
semaj612 Posted April 23, 2010 Author Share Posted April 23, 2010 So she wrote me back without me saying anything. She said "haha I sent that message to everyone. I'm sorry. I got too drunk. Please don't take that more than just a friendship thing. again sorry for that message" Lol shes retarded Link to comment
jahur Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 she tells you, she loves you drunk? ask her to say it sober! unless she was sober and just said she was drunk to mask her true feelings, may even be testing the water, so if you rejected her she could always turn round and say "i was drunk, sorry" tell her to grow up! Link to comment
XxJustMexX Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 So she wrote me back without me saying anything. She said "haha I sent that message to everyone. I'm sorry. I got too drunk. Please don't take that more than just a friendship thing. again sorry for that message" Lol shes retarded She apparently feels stupid enough that she had to follow up with you on it... There's gotta be feelings involved in that. Link to comment
veneratio Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 Agree with DN, I would just thank her or not say anything at all. Did she really mean it? Probably. She felt obliged to message you back once she sobered up to clear things up. But words are just empty without action, so I wouldn't think much of it. Link to comment
semaj612 Posted April 23, 2010 Author Share Posted April 23, 2010 My feelings towards it is that she really does have those feelings. But we were trying to work on a friendship and see where that takes us. I think she just responded to me saying that she doesnt mean it and just meant it as a friend thing to try and cover it up. I dont really care either way. I just want to go about it where she doesnt think I feel that way towards her with the next thing I say to her. So I was thinking of just saying something Lol dont worry about it. Or going off as a joke saying No you already said it so you meant it. You cant take it back. If I said the second one to her she would probably know I was joking and we'd go from there, if she didnt then she is just dumb. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 Ignore. (that's what I would do anyways). Drunk facebook messaging now? Oh my lord. What ever happened to roaming the streets or grabbing breakfast when drunk instead of bugging other people? lol. Link to comment
XxJustMexX Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 Drunk facebook messaging now? Oh my lord. What ever happened to roaming the streets or grabbing breakfast when drunk instead of bugging other people? lol. Technology. Technology happened. Link to comment
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