Confused...

[maul0521]

Ok..my ex of 4 years broke up in Nov 09 and got back together end of Jan 2010 and things were going smoothly. Like that feeling of being in love all over again. We didn't become bf and gf just talked but I moved in w/ her. Going through somethings at home.I changed alot of things that caused us to break up last time. In the past i wasn't as open with her about alot of things. I recently created a facebook and added a girl she doesn't like and we had an argument and i deleted her 2 appease her. So I started adding female friends and deleting the notification on my page so she would see them and get mad.(I wasn't trying to talk to anyone else just didn't want to go through the arguing again)She found out i was adding them and not showing it on my profile and feels as if she cant trust because i have to hide stuff from her and that wasnt the case, just wanted to avoid confrontation...but she didn't see it from my pov...so she got mad and said she wanted to see other ppl and txts someone else constantly but I still live there and she says I don't have to move out. What does this mean and how should I approach her to get her back to wanting me again because she is acting like I don't exist and we live and sleep in the same bed?(I dont care about my facebook, i'll delete it in a heartbeat just to get things right again)

[paulod]

I'm a tad confused as well mate, you broke up Nov last year...got back together in Jan this year,moved in with her, sleeping in the same bed? but not bf/gf??

 

If you are going out with her, you need to stop keeping things from her, trust me on that one!! if you read my posts you'll see I kept something from my now ex, also did it with the best intentions.., she didn't see it from my pov either,it all went horribly wrong and she ended it. (the very short version)

I'd start by getting rid of facebook,that site causes no end of problems. Then sit her down and talk to her,see what's going on in her head, be all sorts of stuff going on in there, she's fuming at the mo.

[maul0521]

We stay together because I watched her daughter (my daughter not biologically) and I was seeing her all the time even though we weren't together and stuff started to get crazy and I just ended up living w/ her and making things work.I mean we are or were pretty much bf/gf just without the title(to her friends i was her bf but she would txt whomever and fb status said single)Well i deactivated my facebook and ima just wait and hope it blows over and she cools down to even listen..but she isn't really open minded...so its gonna be hard proving that kuz i know it sounds suspect but it is the truth and I wasn't trying to talk to anyother girls just reconnect w/ friends and ppl i know..but most women won't believe that due the sterotype that all or most guys are players