cherryberry123 Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 There are many amazing people of ENA, but I think I call it quits. I don't think ENA is helping me in anyway. There are many people looking to get support and get advice on here, and I think it's great. But I think everyone needs to keep something in mind: Make your own decisions and listen to yourself. I'm the type of person that has everyone else control my decisions in life. I am never confident in my own. Even with this breakup, I turned to everyone but myself.."Don't text him" "Go no contact" " "Email him but.." etc etc. I have been going to counseling for 4 months now, but I think my last session really made me realize something. I need to listen to my gut feeling..cause it's never wrong. We all went through that phase right before the breakup where our gut feeling was telling us something was wrong. We knew something was wrong. Our partners denied there was anything concerning them, but we knew. We know what is best for ourselves. We have all the answers within us. I can admit that I post questions on here even though i know the answer. I want validation for the actions I make, but no one knows the answer best but myself. You know why? Cause no one knows how my relationship was between my ex and I..except him and I. No one can tell me how to feel, cause they are not in my shoes. People can tell me to move on and let go, but they can't tell me how to..cause they don't know how I'm feeling! ... and I'm not talking about the "Oh man, I feel like texting him..so I will!". Don't mix your emotions with rationality. Even before you decide to send him that text, you have a sense of doubt. IF YOU HAVE ANY DOUBT, DON'T DO IT! I decided I will hang out with my ex in 2 months. I've been having this in my head for months, and my gut feeling is telling me to do so. There is no doubt in my mind anymore, people are just trying to make me doubt it. I rather regret my own decisions than regret having other people make my decision. I don't even think that made any sense. LOL. Sorry for this random rant. Link to comment
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