lunchbox007 Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 hello all, i will try and make this brief: my boyfriend of over 3 years and i broke up about 3 weeks ago. he initiated it, and i (after reading advice on this forum) agreed that it was a good idea. he wanted to "stay friends" and continued texting me etc, but i told him not to contact me. 3 days later he showed up at my door with a random t-shirt that i had left that he "thought i might want". i didn't take the bait and let him walk out. couple of days later i had posted something on my fb account and he responded to it. again, i didn't reply. over the last 3 weeks, i've continued to make myself go out and have a blast with friends/ guys. one of the guys posted a pic on fb and shortly after that my ex deleted me as a friend. we broke up once before about 6 months ago, and i did the same thing, a week and a half later he flew in begging for me back. when we got back together he told me the fb thing drove him crazy with jealousy and that he almost deleted me because he couldn't bare to look at it all the time. so i guess that's why he did it this time. the difference this time is that it's been 3 weeks and still nothing. he is going to great lengths to try and forget about me. he even wrote my best friends husband saying he hopes he can still be friends. wrote his work colleagues saying that the next few weeks are going to be hard for him. he was crying like a baby when we broke up. i know that he still loves me. should i wait a little longer and contact him? or just wait and see if he contacts me? you guys give great advice, and i thank you for all that i've already learned from this forum.... xoxo Link to comment
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