Priority after 2.5months

[blueeyes83]

Ok so ive been seeing this guy for 2and a half months....but what sort of level of priority would you expect after this period?

 

I mean hes heavily into his sports which I dont have a moajor issue with but after us being together for this length of time should he be putting me higher up in his list of activities? i seem to be fairly close to the bottom at the moment! as well do i say something or would it be too soon? thanks

[ellie1202]

well what do you mean by on the bottom? are these sports he plays or watches with friends? do you think you're both at the same level as far as feelings go in the relationship? i think after 2 and a half months you can expect to be important and for him to make time for you but you can't expect him to forget all his other interests. now if he's blowing off dates, phone calls, etc for these things i can understand being upset.

[blueeyes83]

its sports he plays but hes extreme with them. For example he has a two day race in August so has to train seriously for it! And yesterday we had said maybe we would go to the pictures but because he was training all night i only got to see him for an hour and the pics was cancelled. Dont get me wrong im not like some sort of clingy person as i dont see him very often but it makes me think.

[ellie1202]

well rather than make a statement of why am i not more of a priority to him maybe you could try and say something like i wish we had more time together tonight when that happens again. if it happens again and again i would say something. give it some time though, another good thing is to point out the positive so when you do get to hang out tell him how happy you are to be getting to spend time with him. that way you're not pointing out the negative at this point.