mageofspades Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 We broke up about 2 weeks ago. We went NC for about a week, until he broke it. We have regular contact via phone calls and text messaging. He expresses interest in my life and gets concerned for me. He also has asked about a certain person that I've been casually dating. Needless to say, I obviously care about him still very much and I think he still cares about me. What should I do? I've been pretending like I've moved on and genuinely happy...I want to get back in with him, but I don't want to screw it up. What should I do? My heart is still fragile. He indicated that he wants to get drinks. He keeps indicating that he's never been to a casino... Link to comment
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Ms Darcy Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 My heart is still fragile. He indicated that he wants to get drinks. He keeps indicating that he's never been to a casino... I personally would steer clear if your heart is still fragile. But if you want to pursue, just ask him if he's asking you to hang out. Link to comment
mageofspades Posted April 22, 2010 Author Share Posted April 22, 2010 So, do you think he is still interested? Should I even try? Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 So, do you think he is still interested? Should I even try? Who knows if he's still interested. The point is you shouldn't try if it will devastate you to be rejected. Link to comment
iBroken Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 You broke up two weeks ago and are already seeing someone? Steer clear of both men if your heart is still fragile. It needs to mend on it own. Not with added confusion. Link to comment
mageofspades Posted April 23, 2010 Author Share Posted April 23, 2010 I'm not seeing anyone...I'm just casually going out with friends and dating a little. My ex and I contact regularly, it's been about 3 wks now. He actually texted me earlier today and I haven't responded yet Link to comment
mageofspades Posted April 25, 2010 Author Share Posted April 25, 2010 We've been in constant contact Is there something here? Should I pursue this? (btw I should add when we broke up, he was more emotional than me...he was crying and all the stuff, saying he didn't want me to disappear) Should I remain his friend and maybe rekindle it? Link to comment
abigheart Posted April 25, 2010 Share Posted April 25, 2010 Why did you two break up? I think he is in constant contact with you because he cares about you a lot and still wants you around as a friend...just not as a girlfriend, esp. if it's ONLY been 2 weeks since the break-up. I'd be cautious about thinking that this is a shot of rekindling unless he mentioned he made some sort of mistake. My ex was bawling just as badly as I was when he broke it off, which indicated he cares a lot about me and loves me but doesn't want to be with me. There's a difference. Link to comment
mageofspades Posted April 25, 2010 Author Share Posted April 25, 2010 abigheart, this is my original post... That's why we broke up...I'm being very cautious, which is why I haven't agreed to meet him for drinks or anything, yet. And the things is, he's timid. Always had been...with everything he's done. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted April 25, 2010 Share Posted April 25, 2010 Girl, and I mean this in the nicest way, how can you 'get back together' when you were never together? After a few months where he refuses to get into a relationship with you, he tells you he's lost attraction. To say the least, hanging out isn't going to magically create love feelings. If you can take his desire to be friends as platonic, you can't be friends right now. Link to comment
mageofspades Posted April 25, 2010 Author Share Posted April 25, 2010 I'm sorry, I used the wrong terminology 'get back together'. what I meant was dating again. We both agreed that we were just going to take it slow and date for a while (since we both had pretty unhealthy relationships in the past)...We agreed that building a strong foundation as friends was the route to take - and I jumped the gun and forced his hand prematurely because I was drunk. We still haven't talked about the break-up, or the night it went down - we've just kinda been avoiding the whole situation... Link to comment
mageofspades Posted April 29, 2010 Author Share Posted April 29, 2010 Ok guys (and gals ) I ignored my ex since the last post, since then I have received three text messages from him. Link to comment
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