ItRainsItPours Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 I've been dating this girl for a few months and she's a real sweetheart. pretty, warm, attentive, smart, low maitenance, sense of humor: perfect on paper really. and honestly I'm an idiot because she's a lovely person, but I just dont feel that connection that relationships are worth fighting for. she loves me. it makes sense, she's only dated immature douchebags. I strive to be a gentleman and I think I'm honestly the first guy who's ever been half way decent to her. that's what makes this so hard; she's done nothing wrong and I feel like I've gone out of my way to charm her and get her to fall in love with me. it's not fair to her at all. she deserves a man who loves her as much as she can give. I want that for her, I honestly do. but that man isn't me; I just dont feel the same way. she lives a couple towns over and we had made plans for her to come visit me for the weekend because my car is in the shop. I think I need to get this over with and not drag her along anymore as I feel myself getting noticeably distant with her. but I feel guilty having her come here this weekend away from her friends and family so I can break up with her. she wont have anyone to comfort her and tell her it'll be okay. so for my particular situation is it still wrong for me to do this over the phone? my car will be in the shop for another week or so and I cant have her come down this weekend and sleep with me and pretend like I want her when I dont. but I don't want to break her heart and leave her with no support (she doesn't have a car and is being picked up from a friend. would basically be stuck here until the end of the weekend) please help. how can I do this in the least hurtful way? Link to comment
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