Toddstar Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 Hi everyone, I was hoping that someone might understand or relate to my situation. I met my ex in Jan 2007. By May 2007 she was pregnant. She had 3 kids prior to this and I had one with another relationship. I was quite a drinker back then (since been sober) and our relationship was difficult at times, at other times it was absolute magic. We broke up/got back together quite a few time, push/pull...she had an anxiety disorder, I was a control freak. I used leverage on her to get my way, etc (like all control freaks do). Back in Feb this year she ended it once and for all. We had a date in March and we were intimate, but since then she has put a total stop on her and I. I started going to therapy recently and I quit drinking the day she dumped me in February. Since we share a child we do have to see each other, so on Sunday when she picked up our son, we sat down and I told her about my therapy. How I realize being a controller is not good; she agreed and had researched controlling people and said I was a text book case. I agreed. We had a really nice conversation. After she left I said Well, I will see you in two weeks when I pick up our son, she said that we'll probably talk before that, I said I dunno, I need to let go of you. Since then, the last 2 1/2 days, she has texted me a zillion times, which I respond to, she is acting like nothing ever happened! Its confusing to me! I can only assume that either she is happy knowing I am letting go and this would free her from any guilt of dumping me and letting her find another but keeping me as a friend OR she see's that I have turned a corner and she likes what she see's and maybe wants to see where this all goes. Its really confusing. I love her so much and being away from her is hurting incredibly. I want to get back together with her and marry her one day. Any thoughts? Link to comment
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