nocontactqueen Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 So I've explained my situation in several other threads, but my ex took another girl to his senior fraternity formal and I'm having to see all the pictures of them together on facebook and it's literally making me sick to my stomach. I've tried to stop looking at them but it gets so hard to resist at times and it hurts so much. But here's the other part of the story that makes it hurt so much- he and I have just started talking again, with the understanding that we may be together in the future, but we may not. We're at a huge transitioning point in our lives and have to make a lot of decisions. He even called me during that formal to tell me was just tired and not having fun, but the pictures seem different. I know he's still talking to the girl he took to his formal (she lives about 12 hours away and is several years younger). We've been back and forth between contact and no contact but now he's saying that if we get back together we would probably get married and that brings up a lot of red flags to him. He wants to still hang out and talk to me but he also said he may find someone else to be with, but when I returned that sentiment he got mad and couldn't handle it- which makes me think he was just saying those things to make me mad (possibly?). Because if he just wanted to date her I would think he would be able to just let me go in the many chances he's had to do so. I'm trying to proceed with caution but when we started to break up we still had a lot of feelings for each other and I think we still do, and it's hard to want to see him so much but not at the same time. It's just a lot to take in and any advice would be helpful. We also graduate in 3 weeks and will be heading to different places for the summer. Link to comment
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