JessieGirl Posted April 20, 2010 Share Posted April 20, 2010 Okay...if anyone could give me some advice, it would be so appreciated I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now...and this issue didn't start until around 6 months when we started getting really comfortable with each other..but since then, I have REALLY started to feel overwhelmed. There's a few things.. The first thing is that he is OVERLY horny ALL of the time, and he makes it a point to tell me so. He'll tell me things like "mm I have such a raging boner for you right now." Or he will frame his hands around his..package..and say something like "mm look at that." To be honest, it really grosses me out..and doesn't get me in the mood for anything what so ever. I don't want to know about your "raging" boner. Another thing is that he is wayyy to touchy. I mean I'll sit on the couch with him while watching tv or something, and he will wrap his arms around me and just lay all over me to where I can't even move really. Why can't we sit like normal people!? On top of that he will constantly be rubbing on me..my legs..my arms..my head..my chest..anything he can touch, he will rub. I just want to scream, STOP TOUCHING ME FOR A FREAKING SECOND!! And I see him staring at me..constantly..it's seriously creepy..he just stares..and smiles..Even after I'm like, "what are you doing??" he will just laugh and continue to stare... * * * ?? It's weird! And if I were to get up from the couch, he'll pull my pants down..or randomly slip his hands under my shirt to grab my boobs...sometimes he just tries to take my shirt completely off, but I stop him. It's extremely annoying..this is not romantic or even close to a turn on for me.. Not to mention, he always references things to sex! Anything I say he will have something sexual to say about it....he constantly makes sexual innuendos..about me or my body..or anything in general. It's getting old! We can barely have a normal conversation without him referencing something sexual! And things other than sex...like before I mentioned the weird staring thing, and this is going to sound weird coming from a girl..but he compliments me WAY to much for it to mean anything. It's like every five minutes he looks at me and says..damn you're so pretty..so beautiful..so sexy..amazing..your eyes are mesmerizing..your skin is so soft...etc etc. Don't get me wrong, I love compliments and think it's very sweet when a boyfriend lets you know how he feels...but if you say it over and over again within a 5 minute period, it doesn't mean much after the 10th time in the same night. To be honest, it REALLY gets on my nerves. I'm just starting to feel smothered...he's way to clingy, along with the other things I've listed. I've told him before that him being so sexual all the time turns me off..But he'll say things like "well you can't look that good and blame me for it." Or something along those lines...he just laughs it off...And he doesn't STOP DOING IT! I've also told him that I love his compliments, but it doesn't mean anything to me if he constantly says it over and over again and that it gets really annoying...he usually gets offended, but the next day he goes right back to doing it. What can I do to get through to him?? Any advice please?? I'm close to just breaking it off...I'm starting to not even become attracted to him...lately he just very easily gets on my nerves...some help please? Thanks guys. Link to comment
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