quickstand25 Posted April 20, 2010 Share Posted April 20, 2010 Alright, ill dive right into this. I just got out of a relationship about 4 days ago. I was dating her for 2 years and this was my first big relationship, given the fact that I’m young. Everything was great for a while, then it just seemed to go down hill. I was her first relationship and I had 2 bad ones before her, so I learned from them and knew about compromise and the true meaning of caring for someone, she didn't. Anyways, I started changing slowly for her and drifted away from my friends, and recently reconnected with a lot of my pals. This is when my relationship hit the rocks, she hated the fact that I was enjoying myself and started to realize who I once was, and she suggested a to take a break, so I could "find myself." I agreed and I started hanging out with my old friends more and more, and she was very upset. I on the other hand was not to affected from our break up, I had a feeling in my guts that our relationship wasn't healthy and was slowly dieing. She feels the complete opposite, she said she would love me for ever, but she has not shown me any compromise over the past year, and I was doing all the work in the relationship. Now the past four days have not been that bad, I haven't thought about her too much and I have been keeping my mind off of the break up with friends and crushes that I’ve been friends with for years. Until today... I saw one of her pictures she gave me and I saw all the stuff in her that I think is cute and fun. Now I am starting to second guess myself. I start to feel insecure and feel like I wont find another person like her or wont be able to find another girl. What do I do? I hate to fall back into a relationship that I ended up loosing my individuality in. Please help me out. Link to comment
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