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I am beyond confused with this guy. Long story short, this guy and I hung out a few weeks ago. On the date he said that we should check out this local art exhibit. We didn't make concrete plans, just that we should go. A few days afterward, he called me to tell me that he couldn't make it because of a family thing. We chatted for a few days after that and then he didn't respond to my text so I stopped texting, and we haven't talked for weeks. Yes weeks... This isn't entirely strange, because in the past he has done this before and then got back in contact.


But should I take the initiate and ask him out? Or wait until (if) he calls?


I'm just not sure if he told me he couldn't go because he didn't want to or because he really couldn't. Even though like I said, we didn't set a date or time for the exhibit, just a passing comment "We should check it out".

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I'd say go for it. It's been a few weeks, I don't think you'll come off as clingy or desperate. It's not like you're dealing with an ex here where you have a tremendous history. You'll never know if you don't ask. Maybe he's just really busy, or thinks you weren't that interested and is waiting to hear form you. Give him a shot, if he is unresponsive to your next move, then I would move on, but for now, I'd give it a shot.

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