So confused...

[Kyoot_Panda]

So, I don't really know what's going on, I am assuming I just got dumped but like I said, I'm confused. My boyfriend of 1.5 years has been pretty miserable lately with work and his life in general. He said everyone is making him miserable, including me. I asked him, as he was leaving to see some friends, "What do I do that makes you miserable?" and he told me he didn't want to talk about it now. I also asked if he moved out, which he's been trying to do since we're only temporarily living together until he can find a place, if things with us would be better and his reply, "Maybe.... probably not."

 

I am assuming I just got dumped but he didn't come right out and say it so I don't know what on earth to do, or how to react. I've been in tears but rather calm considering I fell in love with him and just had this hit me in the face.

I've been expecting a break up off and on now for about a month now, and have braced myself but I guess I didn't think it'd be like this.

 

What makes things more confusing is last week he was so lovey dovey, and I felt like I was on Cloud-9, and then this week * * * * hit the fan.

 

I need some help, what do I do? Wait for him to "talk" to me about this?

 

 

 

EDIT: After a bunch of texting back and forth I became very confused, even more so than before. He doesn't know what he wants but says I smother him and that "the luster in our relationship is gone." he said he needs space. He's moving in with a friend or two soon so I told him we should take a break and see how it goes, he doubts it'll help and didn't sound really entheusiastic about the idea but he didn't seem to want to leave, yet at the same time he did. I am a total mess, I didn't sleep much and all I want to do is stare at the ceiling.

I went onto FB a little while ago and saw he changed his default picture to the one I took of him about 7 months ago. I am hoping this time apart is making him see what he lost. I so badly want to go home and see him but I know it will just hurt me more and probably not help him much, and so I figure if I am not around he can decide if he does want me back or if he's happier without me. I guess all I can do is wait and hope that whatever happens I end up happy.

[Sarati]

If it was me, I would not wait around for details. I'd trust my gut, cut my losses, and move on. Sorry it happened to you. You deserve to be treated better that this.

[CaptainNapalm]

Doesn't sound like you got dumped but rather he's going through a bad time. Give him some space and see if he comes around.