Clarity Posted April 19, 2010 Share Posted April 19, 2010 So I've been dating someone for about 5 weeks right now. Absolutely no complaints thus far. I have a great time when we're together, we make each other laugh a lot, and she's prompt with her contact whenever we're in touch, but also not smothering (we both have our own things going on). She's in my town for school, for the next year and a bit, but it's a professional program that involves internships. On our very first date, she told me she had just found out her next internship will start in May, for 2 months, in a place that's 1500+ miles away. That was the first date and we haven't really talked about it since. My guess is we will when that time comes closer (which is in less than 2 weeks). My instinct is to let her bring it up, but if she doesn't (before she leaves), to bring it up myself. I don't plan on making any demands, but I just want to find out what "we" are in her eyes. My hope is she sees us as exclusive and wants to continue dating when she comes back. I don't expect us to keep in a great amount of contact while she's gone, the relationship just doesn't have that dynamic (which I see as a good thing right now). That being said, I also want to know if she doesn't see us as exclusive and plans to date when she's away, although I don't see her as that type, as a man I know I have no business trying to predict a woman's character Anyway, I was just wondering if the wait and see approach is the best in other people's opinions. Has anyone been in this situation, where a relationship that had just started was interrupted by a break? Link to comment
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