Case_1983 Posted April 19, 2010 Share Posted April 19, 2010 I live in Europe so taking mini -trips to Barcelona, Berlin London etc. is quite cheap and can be done a few times a year. My friend asked me to come to Barcelona with her and i was considering it and then my bf piped up that he would like to come too. i told him i would rather go just with my friend unless he brought one of his friends along as i hate doing things as 3 people. one person always gets left out and i always have a bad time trying to please everyone. I anyway spoke to my friend about bringing him and she said she couldnt afford it anyway going as 3 people as she was looking to share a room with me and if i bring my bf that wouldnt be possible (I suggested hostel but that didnt go down with her that well, she likes her comforts) He was quite upset by this as none of his friends can come on short notice. I feel bad that i have excluded him and in the end just told my friend i couldnt go . my bf said he had the chance to go to London with a group of his friends a few months back but didnt want to leave me behind so said no and couldnt understand why i wouldnt have done the same for him from the start. Was i being insensitive telling him he couldnt come unless he brought a buddy? We have been together a year and live together. Link to comment
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