MattUK2010 Posted April 19, 2010 Share Posted April 19, 2010 Hi Im 22 days into NC, after being 4 weeks with very limited contact - only sorting out things that had to be after the break up. I am strong enough to stick with NC, but I am almost certain that my ex, being as stubborn as she is, will never call again almost to make a point. So I am wanting to make a point myself too right now. I feel like making a call to let her know zero hard feelings from me, and that I'm doing good and moving on. Being positive and up beat, I know I have the strength to do this no problem. As I do to move on without her, but of course if she wanted to talk about trying to work things out, then i'd listen to what she had to say and take baby steps from there, possibly. But my main motive to breaking NC is to say, hey, im alive im doing good and get her thinking about what i'm up to. Is 7-8 weeks of LC then NC enough space and time for me to initiate anything here? Over the weekend I have really come on strong over it all. Been out socialising, meeting new people, enjoying a return to my former life, pre her. What to do though? Ultimately, something inside still tells me she is the one I want to be with, but don't need to be with. And if Im not then hey ho. But I don't want to miss an opportunity to be with her at the same time, by just sticking all out with NC and we both move further apart and move on. I didn't leave things on bad terms, I believe she is the one who has, being the dumper too as she was the one who needed to deal with more issues than I did! Link to comment
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