faithful14 Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 In a couple months, I'm going to see my ex-best friend at a big get together. We stopped being friends three years ago because of what happened between us....... My friend is mad at me because im dating her cousin....her (cousin by marriage) who she's in love with. She gave me permission to date him and she has a boyfriend...but she's telling everybody that i stole him from her. So my question is...did i do something wrong here and would anybody date a cousin (cousin by marriage)? I feel bad because i never meant to hurt her or anything. I asked her face to face if it was okay..and she said yes because she was into another guy and she was also dating another guy..and then all of a sudden she turned on me saying that I "stole" her boyfriend and she went told everyone in the family about it, basically getting everyone involved in this. Her mom even went and told everyone I'm a .I don't want to be a boyfriend stealer or anything, that's why i had to ask... Is what I did wrong here? This happened three years ago, but she still hasn't gotten over it and now her family and some of the cousins dislike me. I guess I should add that when all this was happening, I did call a couple times and asked her to meet me for coffee or something, so we could talk about it but she never responded. I forgot to mention that when my boyfriend first asked me out, I said no because I didn't want to do it unless she was okay. My friend found out and she came and talked to me about it saying she was okay with it since she was already seeing someone else. I asked her to be honest with me if it did really bother her but she kept saying she was fine since she was dating someone else. Link to comment
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