Should I be concerned?

[paran0id]

Hi, here's the thrill:

 

I have a gf and Im at high school, and shes at middle school. She told me she's been invited to a "Quince años party" (15 year old party) its just a party that women teenagers do when turn 15 in latinamerica, but they do it kinda big, I trust her, but I really dont know what could happen at that party, cause for what they've told me, theres always alcohol and smoking and grinding or those dirty dancing (yeah were in a rebel generation). I just dont know what to think cause Ive been just once at a party -Im not kind of social-popular, Im a bit shy- but shes not any shy, she loves to dance and that party stuff, but shes not any * * * * or that kind of girl...

 

The point is that someone who regularly attend to parties can tell me whats the most could happen at a party with a bit of alcohol, party ambientation and that frenzy that dirty-dancing brings for a girl who has boyfriend?? can she even posibilly forget she has a boyfriend for a moment or she wont let it rock like that?

[Sarati]

You can't control what she will do whether you go or don't go with her.

[misssmithviii]

The question is, do you trust her? Does she have a trustable personality?

To me, personality traits say more than actions - a marginal amount more, but more nonetheless.

[Sarati]

It's obvious that his trust is shaky, or else he probably wouldn't be raising this question now.

[Capricorn3]

Is this party for girls only, or did I misread it?

[MikNomis]

It should be for both genders I'm fairly sure. Just act cool with it and send her off on a good note, and be optimistic that your trust is well placed.