uncomfynumb Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 I'm posting this in this section rather than the "Healing" section because this seems to be the place that dumpers like to lurk. I know that each person's experince is entirely individual but there has got to be a "definative" answer here, especially for moving on. Some people go from break up to healing without a pause. And yet others hold on, focus on getting back together and put the majority of their time and energy into that. You are here. You are holding on. Why? The reason I ask is for me and because what you post may answer the questions that I still have. Those questions being: Did I do enough? Could I have done it better? Is it or was it worth fighting for? And how do you determine if a relationship or person is worth fighting for? OR how do you know that if absolutely doesn't get better than this? I won't pretend that I don't think I know the answers to the questions because I think that I do. But I still question if I am right. Rather, I question "what if I'm wrong?" Whether reconcilling is or something you want now or have ever wanted in the past, I hope that you share your thoughts and experiences as I have no doubt they will prove insightful. Link to comment
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