For People Who Got Back Together Or Know Someone Who Did...

[getbiii]

i was just wondering,

our of curiosity after reading another post.

 

did the dumper ever say anything bad/negative?

or say something that killed your hope of getting back together?

 

if so, what did they say?

 

 

[Lovelace]

Well...no. Mostly if someone holds hope of getting back together with an ex, they're on their best behavior until it happens. If they don't, well, they feel quite free to be very mean.

[getbiii]

im mean on the dumpers side, not the dumpee.

 

sorry i gotta fix that

[GenoGeno]

Well it's nothing my ex said to me...i went through her friends and her friend told me...they were talking about people and she said she wanted someone adventurous. (I always wanted to stay home due to lack of money) so...I guess i wasn't mr. adventurous. And that kind of killed my hopes to hear from her friend.

[Live-N-Learn]

Actually just the opposite. The ex kept giving me just enough bread crumbs to keep me around hoping for 3 months post breakup. I finally cut her off and dumped her and went NC 5 days ago. Enough is enough.

[iBroken]

My girlfriend was a total and complete B**ch.

 

After the hell she put me through and the things she said, I thought for sure that there was no going back.

 

She then did a 180 and the girl I knew and fell in love with was back.

 

We are in R but its difficult.

[coolchick64]

About four days after we broke up, he wrote to me and asked how I was doing. I told him I was miserable and he said he was miserable, too. I wrote back and asked if he was sure this was the right thing to do. He said (and I quote from memory because I replayed this message in my mind continuously for about 3 days): "Coolchick, I know it's over. It's time for us to let go and move on. I know you'll be happy someday. Take care. Assclown." I figured out later that he had already hooked up with his rebound by that point. At the time, I responded, "Okay, I just wanted to be sure," and that was it. Three months later he said he was wrong and wanted me back.

[Starbourne]

My girlfriend was a total and complete B**ch.

 

After the hell she put me through and the things she said, I thought for sure that there was no going back.

 

She then did a 180 and the girl I knew and fell in love with was back.

 

We are in R but its difficult.

 

Can you give more details as to what happened? After my girl friend dumped me, she turned into a major b****, so i went NC and then she deleted me from facebook.

[getbiii]

my ex called me to say "goodbye" she said it was best we didn't talk again.

[Animelover6764]

my ex called me to say "goodbye" she said it was best we didn't talk again.

 

didn't she said that to you before?