Shady2003 Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 Okay so you're at a nightclub, a guy chats to you, do you only give out your number if you're interested? Link to comment
Is Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 The times I go to nightclubs it is too loud to even chat. Link to comment
Hermes Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 Give no number! You meet a total stranger in a club, and you want to give him your number?!! Hermes Link to comment
OntheWire Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 Don't go for the number. They're usually too drunk to remember who you are the next day anyways. It's easier to just get them to come home with you. Link to comment
Maya_A Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 Back when I did go to clubs often & was single, if I were interested I'd always get theirs. I wouldn't give a guy I just met my phone number.... Link to comment
goodfoot Posted April 20, 2010 Share Posted April 20, 2010 Sorry to tell you, but chicks give out fake numbers all the time, or they give you their real number and never answer you. I guess it is kinda the path of least resistance; it's easier to ignore a phone call than to tell a guy in person they aren't interested. One thing to do that may help is call on your cell as soon as you get her number. If it's a cell and she has it on her it may ring. If she isn't near you, listen thru to the voicemail and see if you catch her name in the message. Another reason to do this is that some people only answer numbers they recognize, so if she doesn't know what your number is you won't hear from her. Back when I did go to clubs often & was single, if I were interested I'd always get theirs. I wouldn't give a guy I just met my phone number.... But as soon as you call him he'll have your number anyway, unless you were calling from a pay phone. In my experience, no girl that has insisted on taking my number actually called. Link to comment
Maya_A Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 I subscribed for many years to "call block" where when you dial out the recipient can't see your #. Not because of dating but just for general privacy. When I wasn't subbed to that I simply did a *67 when I didn't want my # shown, which works in my neck of the woods. Though I wouldn't ask for the guy's # unless I was genuinely interested. But that's just me. Funny is that they'd usually notice & comment on the blocked number... Not in a neg. way but saying along the lines of "don't worry I'm not a serial killer, etc"... I've also just given my email address, which is an idea to consider as well. Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 I'm with Maya. I never gave out phone numbers. If they wanted my number, I would ask them for theirs (not that I ever called back). Link to comment
cupcakes122 Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 I go to shows and concerts all the time, and i meet all kinds of guys. im out sometimes 5-6 nights a week, and have been since october of 09. since then i've only given my number to 2 guys. and they were both i was interested in. i still talk to one of them today. we didnt really have the *spark but this other one was recent, and i really feel attracted towards him bigtime. he's had my number for 3 days and not a call or text, but we facebook, and i saw him last night at a show. so we'll see where it goes. I dont give out fake numbers, i just say im not interested. no point in stringing a guy along thats messed up. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 I've never given out a number in a club. I don't give out my number unless I'm either interested, or they know I'm not and we're just friends. Link to comment
Shady2003 Posted April 21, 2010 Author Share Posted April 21, 2010 Thanks for your responses so far! Strange since I've texted a girl who gave me her number and received no response. Not sure why anyone would give out their number if they weren't interested, saying no is not impolite Link to comment
Shudder Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 Thanks for your responses so far! Strange since I've texted a girl who gave me her number and received no response. Not sure why anyone would give out their number if they weren't interested, saying no is not impolite maybe she didnt know who it was Link to comment
user83 Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 Thanks for your responses so far! Strange since I've texted a girl who gave me her number and received no response. Not sure why anyone would give out their number if they weren't interested, saying no is not impolite take it like this. if they are actually talking to you having a good time and they give a fake number or dont respond. * * * * em. whats so bad about givign a number? anit worth your time. Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 I wouldn't give a fake number because I'd be worried he'd try and call my phone right there to 'test it' and that'd be embarrassing. If I really wasn't interested I'd just say I had a boyfriend already, even if I didn't. But some girls will give out their number because they're afraid to be rude, even if they're not that interested. Some men might take a no well, but others might blow up at a girl, especially when drinking has been involved. That or, she went home with someone else after meeting you. Link to comment
Chantal87 Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 I ve never given out my number at a club but I have given my number to some guy I met randomly. Thats probably a bad thing but its never happened before that. Id probably just say no, I wouldnt give a fake number though because they get mad. And guys in bars/clubs are more forward I think. I might ask for their number if I really was interested, if not id decline. And when girls say they have a boyfriend, usually they dont lol. Link to comment
Kaiser_Soze Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 Give out your email. If you don't want to reply, don't. It's a little less invassive. I remember once an nice looking woman (she was also about 10 years older than me) asked for my number, I was pretty drunk and wrote it down, I forgot to ask for hers. She never called. I'm not sure if it was because I didn't show interest by asking for hers or my note looked like it was written by crippled monkey, it may as well been scribbled in crayon. Link to comment
snoopydog Posted April 24, 2010 Share Posted April 24, 2010 Thanks for your responses so far! Strange since I've texted a girl who gave me her number and received no response. Not sure why anyone would give out their number if they weren't interested, saying no is not impolite You should've rung her imo. I will list some reasons why I have this opinion: 1. If she gave her number out to several guys or she had a bit too much to drink she may have forgotten who you are. Speaking on the phone reattracts her. 2. Phoning is what a confident, outgoing person would do. Women want confident men who aren't afraid to aggressively pursue them. 3. A plain, boring 100 character text saying hey etc, is easy to reject. An engaging phonecall full of personality will grab her attention. Getting a number is only the first stage. Remember at all times an attractive fun woman has multiple male suitors in pursuit of the prize. Link to comment
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