Feeling forgotten today...

[bravebird]

I was doing so well all week...as well as can be. Today, for some reason, I feel down again. I feel forgotten. I don't believe it can be EASY for him to completely forget me in a matter of a week, but his absence and lack of contact makes it seem so.

[Mauxly]

It would be nearly impossible for him to forget you this soon. He's probably protecting his heart and giving you space. You are understandably feeling really down right now, and your self esteem has taken a huge hit. So you are likely to read the most negative things into everything. Try really hard to pull yourself out of this. Go do something for yourself. Show yourself that you haven't forgotten about you! That is what will get you through this.

[bravebird]

It would be nearly impossible for him to forget you this soon. He's probably protecting his heart and giving you space. You are understandably feeling really down right now, and your self esteem has taken a huge hit. So you are likely to read the most negative things into everything. Try really hard to pull yourself out of this. Go do something for yourself. Show yourself that you haven't forgotten about you! That is what will get you through this.

 

Thanks. I'm trying to focus more on myself and less on what drives him to contact or not. I will continue to forge ahead!