GeneralLee Posted April 16, 2010 Share Posted April 16, 2010 So if you read any of my posts about my recent break-up with my now ex-fiance, you know what she did to me. If you didn't heres a quick recap. We met, fell in love, started dating, and got engaged in pretty short order. We are both military and I was going overseas; she was due to join me a few months later after we were married. Long story short while we were apart she cheated on me with three different guys and then broke up with me via MySpace. Now its a few months later and we haven't spoken except to exchange new addresses for the obligatory post breakup return-of-crap package. I've moved on and thought she had too, but now out of the blue I get a three word message from her (on MySpace of all mediums, theres an irony in that somewhere I'm sure) saying "I Miss You." I'm known for being a quickdraw smartass, but for the life of me I do not know what to say to this. She was the one who pushed the marriage card, promised me through my doubts that we'd make everything work, begged and pleaded with me until I let my guard down and fell in love with her, then gave herself to three other guys when she didn't have me around anymore, lied, told me she loved me over the phone while she was probably in the same room with the guy she was cheating on me with, broke up with me, and now she wants to lay this noise on me? I'm just filled with mixed feelings right now. I'd be lying if I said I didn't still have feelings for her just like anyone whos been prepared to give the rest of their life to someone and had it stripped away would be lying if they said the same thing. I'm not angry at her and I've forgiven her, on the other hand though, she did this. SHE did this, and now she realizes she threw away a good thing, like a child who decides to break their favorite toy and then cries because its gone. I want so badly to throw what shes done in her face, but at the same time, I feel sorry for her. I know what a strong drink regret can be. I just don't know what to say... Link to comment
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