butterfly0424 Posted April 15, 2010 Share Posted April 15, 2010 I have been reading break up stories and my friend is going through a break up. So many times I hear about the dumpers saying "I need space. If after some time has passed and I still have feelings for you, I will know our relationship was meant to be. But during the time I need, please dont wait for me, move on, I am nothing special. If you meet someone else, go ahead and pursue it, dont wait for me" and there are countless others. The outsiders knows they are just saying these things to make the break up easier on them. The outsider knows that most of the time, the dumper never has any intention to get back together. Now to the dumpee, it gives them false hope. I know because I have been there. It just irritates me. Why can't the dumper just say "our relationship isnt working..." They dont have give false hope. I'm sorry Im just venting a little. Link to comment
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