nycgirl01 Posted April 15, 2010 Share Posted April 15, 2010 A week or so ago, I started a thread about my emotionally abusive boyfriend entititled "Emotonal Abuse or Cultural Differences." A lot of you replied and I am very grateful because I had been sitting on the fence and your words were exactly what I needed to get out of that toxic relationship. I left last Friday while he was at work. After I got out of NYC, I texted him and told him I had left. He was upset..not mad upset..but crying upset. He said I ruined his life and said that even animals have more of a heart then I did. He then said that by seperating him from our 18 month old daughter, I was destroying her life too. I told him that the power to keep his family intact laid upon his shoulders and that if he had changed like he swore he would on numerous occasions, he would still have his family. As usual, he denied any wrongdoing ..the most he would admit to was that he was stressed and that's why he treated me the way he did. I am so happy I am free. I took my daughter for a walk yesterday to get an ice cream cone. We then stopped at the park and it was so nice not to hear my phone ringing off the hook with someone on the other end demanding to know where I am and when I'm going to be home. He keeps calling me and texting me. He wants to see his daughter next weekend. I don't know if I should let him see her or not. The first few days after we left, she was really upset..now she's back to her happy self and I don't know if it will upset her again to see him again. Plus, my new boyfriend doesn't think its a good idea. He said he doesn't want my ex anywhere near us and he wants me to focus on our future together, and not allow my ex to drag me into the past. Should I let my ex see his daughter? Link to comment
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