misssmithviii Posted April 14, 2010 Share Posted April 14, 2010 Ok... so as a little basis of understanding here I'll make this intro brief. My man and I have been together for over a year, he's amazing, the cultured and moral gentleman who's down to earth; we share the same passion in life - we're perfect for eachother really and it helps that we essentially grew up together. As for clarification: I know I shouldn't be thinking about this right now but I have only ever vented this on a few occasions and when the thought does enter my mind... I may remain calm on the exterior but I'm going nuts inside! I just purely would like some positive feedback - perhaps someone more eloquent than my bf can speak on his behalf for me here. He's explained to me many times and my best friend, Michele has told me that my bf is honorable and telling the absolute truth. But it'd be nice to see someone else defend him in a sense - someone who is just more well-versed with their words. Ok, simply now - my man now (bf) had first dated a friend I had named Evelyn. She was basically the hotter friend or whatever bc guys would always choose her over me. I hadn't been very close with her after I found out she had become a wh*re and used men for attention, led them on and threw them away whenever she wanted. Yes I still have a complex I'm dealing with to get over the Russian big-breasted blonde, Evelyn but what I really find absurd to believe is that my man, Steven - never once slept with/did anything beyond kissing with her; He expects me to believe that he went on a vacation to Tahoe with her, they showered together for only a few seconds (she has a dreadful skin-condition that he claims was just too off-putting to him) and they slept in the same bed yet on other sides of it. Oh, and she's quite the . Let me say first that I could care less if they did anything, but I don't ever excuse a lie... never. He tells me he didn't even like her after he got to know her, she was a typical stuck up b*tch according to him (and most) and he only brought her to Tahoe for platonic company bc his parents were taking him on a snowboarding trip and everyone else he invited was busy that time. (His family had these trips many times a year bc they have a house there in Tahoe). So, is it possible? Do I believe this? Please save the "you have trust issues" argument - I know I do and that is irrelevant to my question. But do help me believe this is possible if you think it is. Link to comment
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