LightbulbSun Posted April 13, 2010 Share Posted April 13, 2010 I'm making a mid-year resolution right now to work on myself. I've basically been beating myself up for too long, and it's time to make some changes. These are the things I want to work on: 1. From now on, I'm a voluntary virgin who doesn't care about being one. Forget my age, forget how experienced everyone else is. It doesn't matter. There are other virgins out there much older than me, who don't care that they're virgins, and they meet partners because of this. Caring that I'm a virgin is holding me back, and I need to quit it. 2. I'm going to work on improving my physical health. Enough beating myself up over being overweight, it doesn't matter, because I can change. I'm going to go to the gym tomorrow; in fact, I'll probably go as soon as I get up. 3. I'm going to read dating/self help books, and not treat dating so cynically. I need to keep an open mind when it comes to dating; just because I've never done it before, doesn't mean I can't learn how. And the books I have will help that. 4. No more putting myself down. I am attractive, that's how I feel, and past experiences aren't going to change that. 5. I'm going to join a dating site, and stick with it. Maybe I'll meet someone special, maybe I won't. Who knows? But it's better than sitting around feeling sorry for myself. Link to comment
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