spencervintage Posted April 13, 2010 Share Posted April 13, 2010 Ok, I'm on here asking because I honestly have never really had to deal with something like this before. I met a guy and he asked me out on a date that same day. I met his parents on our first "date" (it was a party), and we kissed that night. From that point on he texted me nonstop, called me beautiful/pretty, always asked how I was, and invited me over every night to his apartment. In fact, by our third date he asked me to date him exclusively. He told me he adored me, NEVER made any type of sleazy moves on me, and things seemed to be moving along great, if not a little more seriously on his part then on mine. But 3 weeks later it's a TOTALLY different story. All of a sudden (within the past 2 weeks, we've been together for about 5 weeks total) he doesn't text me, doesn't really want to hang out with me, and hasn't even tried to kiss me the past two times we have hung out (I called him to hang out, I felt like a hassle the entire time I was there). He doesn't call me me beautiful anymore, and I feel like an idiot. I talked to him about why he doesn't really call me or anything anymore and why all of a sudden we don't see each other, and to be honest I was planning on ending it but he was insistent that it's because he's crazy busy at work and is just down because his best friend is moving far away and his brother is going to college. He also said that he didn't really want to rush things and felt like the "relationship" is fine the way it is. I was with him for a couple of hours and he talked to me like nothing was wrong, but it felt like a very friend vibe. I hate to admit that I've become a little bit attached, but it's hard not to be when someone chases after you so intensely and spends every waking moment with you. I'm so beyond confused about what his deal is, and I don't want to continue this if it's got no future, Its just bizarre. PLEASE HELP! Link to comment
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.