FrozenFlame Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over a month. She has more experience with kissing and sex and she was actually my first kiss so things are kind of awkward. We have been making out for a few weeks now and I know that she wants more but I have no idea what to do. Whenever we make out I have my hand on her neck, back, or side but I usually just end up leaving it there. What is the next step and how do I go about getting there without making it seem weird and once I'm there what do I do? Link to comment
Dako Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Holding her purse while she tries on clothes. Link to comment
Intense Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 One month?? Get her naked and have sex already. Link to comment
Foxfire21 Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 One month?? Get her naked and have sex already. Don't you think it's a bit to soon to have sex? It will be his first time and kissing itself is awkward for him. I say you should take it slow. Get to know her a bit more, and when you kiss you can feel her up a bit (If she allows you to). Like a small boob grab there, an ass rub here and maybe a massage. Those simple things. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 What do you feel comfortable doing, OP? The next step, I would think, is to start having wandering hands. Start touching her breasts area. Once you feel comfortable with that, try under the shirt. Link to comment
FrozenFlame Posted April 13, 2010 Author Share Posted April 13, 2010 I'm completely comfortable with making out and kissing now it just took some time to get used to. I'm gonna just try wandering hands for a little while and see where that goes. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 13, 2010 Share Posted April 13, 2010 I'm completely comfortable with making out and kissing now it just took some time to get used to. I'm gonna just try wandering hands for a little while and see where that goes. Just go at your own pace. It took me more than a year and a half dating a guy before I had sex for the first time. That's completely normal to wait that long with your first. It's all about when you are personally ready. Link to comment
mmmd Posted April 13, 2010 Share Posted April 13, 2010 whisper in her ear, "touch my vagina." then she says, "what?!" then you go, "that's what you're supposed to say" Link to comment
Baily Posted April 13, 2010 Share Posted April 13, 2010 you sound young.... best bet is to put your hand up her shirt on her back...and rub around....if you are good enough...unbutton her bra....then you'll know if 2nd base is available...even if you are fiddling with it...she'll get the idea...and she'll unhook it if you can't....then it's on like Donkey Kong! Link to comment
Ginger1 Posted April 15, 2010 Share Posted April 15, 2010 One month?? Get her naked and have sex already. lol! ok that was funny! ...but probably not the best advice for our guy here! yeah I'd say just more touching, hands under clothing etc. Then that will lead to eventually some sort of undressing.... Link to comment
Bartok Posted April 16, 2010 Share Posted April 16, 2010 Just touch her all over the place. Explore with your hands, figure out where the boundaries are (if there are any). Don't be afraid to push it a bit (not too hard!) because otherwise your makeout sessions won't go anywhere and she might get frustrated. Don't expect her to make it go anywhere, women are used to letting us set the pace at the beginning. Also, when the time comes... link removed Link to comment
Mustachio Posted April 16, 2010 Share Posted April 16, 2010 Holding her purse while she tries on clothes. HAHA! I know this isnt helping the topic, but that was too funny. And everyone else has pretty much said it already, just do whats natural and try not to worry too much about it, go with the flow. Link to comment
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