crowdog Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 I've been seeing my girlfriend for almost 2 years but for a while now I've been acting differently. Obviously during the honeymoon period things were amazing but about 6 months ago I started showing less and less affection. I'm aware of this but I have very little desire to have sex and I don't show my love by staring into her eyes, saying loving things, touching her etc. like I used to. My life has gone through a lot of changes this year and I've been under a lot of stress from major injuries, surgeries and job problems but she's stuck by me despite receiving very little assurance that our future is secure. It's now come to a crossroads. She has told me we need to take a break and I need to think about what I really want. If I want her, she needs me to change and start showing her that I love her. The problem is, I don't know what I want! I know I love her and she's the most loving, affectionate, caring, generous and amazing girl I've ever known! So how do I kick start my emotions again?! How do I change so that I love her like she loves me?! Or is all this just futile? Are we destined to break up because I don't love her enough? I'm 33 years old... If I throw this away I may never meet another girl who will be as loving and devoted as her. I know she's in pain now and the guilt is unbearable. Link to comment
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