watchingstorms Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 We met yesterday, after the confusing signals he sent me last week (would always love, always wants me in his life....) he tells me that he is having s£x with someone, not 'seeing' her as in a relationship, it's just s£x. And he's still playing around over financial arrangements which keeps me hanging on since I cant afford to see 'legal' people I'm trying to play nice since I'm at the mercy of his decision. I wonder if he's aware of how he's controling me? He cried when I said I couldn't be his friend and couldn't see a place in his life if I wasn't his girlfriend, infact he cried three times during our meeting. I can't go full NC just yet, simply because of the money situation - but I need to let him know he cant treat me like his play thing. He has at last agreed to meet and talk to me about why he left me - is it worth me even having the conversation? Does it matter now? Will this give me closure or just serve to rub more salt into the wound he keeps on opening??? Just needed to put words down, any advice or thoughts would be an extra bonus, thanks. Link to comment
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