aloevera Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 This is my problem: I have a group of female friends which I avoid seeing. They are all single and very attractive. I am very self conscious about my looks and they always want to go to nightclubs on the weekend. They sometimes look down on me and are extremely competitive (I don't do either of these things). Most of the time I cancel plans with these girls to hang out with my boyfriend and my guy friends as well as my boyfriends friends, and NO I am NOT attracted to anyone but my own boyfriend. I'm not a tom-boy: I love cars, I love playstation. My girlfriends friends like: boys, nailpolish, clothes and gossip. A while ago my guy friend developed feelings for me, he says he's over it and apologised to my boyfriend, but I'm not entirely sure what to do. So the big question is: 1. Should my friends be girls or guys? 2. Is it time to move on from my girlfriends? I feel bad, since I've been friends with them since I was in year 7 and only after 6 years of friendship I stared to feel this way. 3. Should I start going 'clubbing with them'? If I act like them will I like them better? 4. Any advice would be great as I am seriously confused! Thanks Link to comment
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