hers Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 I've been a huge B to my boyfriend for no good reason lately. I'm feeling very guilty about it. See my previous thread for more history. I know I've been unjustifiably mean to him and I need to stop doing that for the sake of our relationship and for his sake. He's done nothing to make me be that bad! Our 6-month anniverary is Tuesday. I'm not one to celebrate events like that but I'd like to do something nice for him and to make up for being so awful to him lately. Any ideas of the free but generous kind? money is right right now for me so I need something thoughtful but kind. Thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bella20 Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 two words: B.J. i'm not even kidding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted April 12, 2010 Author Share Posted April 12, 2010 Actually he'd probably like that. I'm so not sexual enough with him lately I don't know what's wrong with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jengh Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 What are his most favorite activities? Besides sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted April 12, 2010 Author Share Posted April 12, 2010 During the week he doesn't like to do much b/c work takes so much out of him. We like doing movies and outside stuff together though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jengh Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 You could plan a beach picnic...make (or buy) his favorite foods... generic, but never fails. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bella20 Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 full body massage + special ending i swear guys are so much simpler than you think Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 go out for a nice, inexpensive, but romantic dinner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted April 12, 2010 Author Share Posted April 12, 2010 He does like when I rub his back. Maybe I should just have a night and make it all about him. I have been very selfish lately Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bella20 Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 He does like when I rub his back. Maybe I should just have a night and make it all about him. I have been very selfish lately i think that sounds like an awesome idea. also, maybe cook him something? i have a simple, cheap dish that everyone loves. let me know if you want me to tell you what it is. and were you going to have pictures taken?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
renaissancewoman101 Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 He does like when I rub his back. Maybe I should just have a night and make it all about him. I have been very selfish lately yes, spoil and pamper him for one evening. And a BJ is always a good thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KevinR Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 full body massage + special ending i swear guys are so much simpler than you think It's so true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted April 12, 2010 Author Share Posted April 12, 2010 My pictures are this upcoming sunday. I'm excited! I hate cooking but I could find something nice to cook. I'm sure I could. He's been stressed with work lately and I know I haven't been helping with how I've been acting. He deserves something nice. He's wonderful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
absinthe Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Making a night all about him is a wonderful idea. Rent a movie that you know he likes. Sit him in front of the TV, remote control in one hand, beer in the other. Make him dinner with his favourite foods and then, have a relaxing and romantic dinner by candlelight. Better yet, make him some finger foods that you can feed him, between soft little teasing kisses and other kinds of fun ways to make contact. Need I mention how to end the evening? Didn't think so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bella20 Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 My pictures are this upcoming sunday. I'm excited! I hate cooking but I could find something nice to cook. I'm sure I could. He's been stressed with work lately and I know I haven't been helping with how I've been acting. He deserves something nice. He's wonderful. maybe print him one of them and buy a frame at walmart? ok, super easy. his favorite type of pasta. for the sauce, mix marinara+basil+heavy cream until it forms a pink/light orange sauce. It's an awesome dish. For an appetizer you can buy an avocado, cut it in half, take the stuff off with a spoon and put it on a place, mix it with some mayo, and then put the mix back in the avocado skin (which will look like a little empty container). It's yummy. and for dessert: chocolate syrup and whipped cream. oH YEA I WENT THERE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
absinthe Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 If you're looking for another easy avocado starter recipe, here's one. Take one or two leaves of butter lettuce. Put 1/2 an avocado into the bowl shaped butter lettuce leaves and slice in 1/8" slices but retain the shape of the avocado half. Take a big scoop of cooked baby shrimp and put them on top of the avocado. Drizzle it with a store-bought Italian dressing or home-made vinaigrette. It's delicious and pretty good for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted April 12, 2010 Author Share Posted April 12, 2010 Haha thanks guys. I will come up with something I hope. I need to make it about him all the time, not just one night. He's so special and deserves great treatment all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophie274 Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Ok, this is sort of on a different note than the rest of the posts... It's also super super cheesy, but whatever One time my ex's birthday sort of snuck up on me without me planning everything. The night before, we were lying in bed just cuddling, and I just started telling him all the reasons why I loved him and everything I loved about him - little things, big things, medium things. I hadn't "planned" it, but I was actually able to keep going for quite a while. He loved it. I mean he was sort of lost for words but in a really really happy way. He was just super super touched and happy. I'm not usually a very gushy person so that probably helped make it special. Sorry for the cheese, but it was sort of crazy romantic and intimate and awesome. Just a thought. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mmmd Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Dave Chappelle - 'There ain't 100 ways to please a man, there are four. Suck his * * * * , play with his balls, fix him a sandwich and don't talk so much'. Make him breakfast, give him a massage, and blow him. Repeat for brunch/pre-lunch/lunch/post-lunch/pre-dinner/dinner/dessert Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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