am i in denial?

[newsinglegal]

i have a long distance relationship for a few months now and we see eachother about every 2 or 3 weeks. we have been arguing for most of the relationship bec getting to know someone long distance is hard. lately he has become impatient, does not want to see me, tries to break up, gets mad easily, and recently "unhid" his link removed profile on accident.

 

everyone thinks he is cheating on me, but they dont know him since he lives out of town. what do you think?

[fragmint]

Even if he wasn't cheating, are you okay with his behavior lately ? Not wanting to see you, tried to break up, being impatient, unhiding his online profile.....

 

I'd cut your losses. The best thing in every situation is communication though. Ask him about it and you'll probably get your answer either directly or indirectly.

[petite]

Long distance relationships are HARD WORK. Harder than your average relationship in the same city. If there is no trust it wont work. That goes for all relationships but especially those in LD, because you can't really know what that person is up to. If trust is gone, it's very, very hard to get it back.

 

As for his dating site profile, why is he even on the site? If you're in a relationship wouldn't you want to Delete the profiles? No, there is no such thing as accidentally un-hiding your profile.

[sidehop]

lately he has become impatient, does not want to see me, tries to break up, gets mad easily, and recently "unhid" his link removed profile on accident.

 

I think the two go hand in hand. He may be talking to if not seeing someone.