Man I don't even know....

[dude23]

So first off i'm not very experienced when it comes to the whole dating thing.

 

In one of my college classes, I noticed that this girl was smiling at me a lot, and so i asked to to have lunch. We did, and then i asked her to go bowling and get dinner, which she agrees to. it went great, and she invited me in to watch a movie, we end up making out a few times.

 

The next weekend we go out again to a show at the planetarium (which wasn't that exciting, we both didn't like it that much), then we went back to my place for a movie. Our conversation didn't flow quite as well this time, and I took her home straight away after the movie, but we still kissed goodnight.

 

I asked her today if she wanted to go to a softball game with me, but she said that she wanted to but had a lot of homework, which could definitely be true.

 

I don't even quite know what i'm asking lol. I don't wanna screw things up with this girl, but i'm not sure what to do or if she is losing interest. God why are these things so complicated????

[Shallow]

I don't even quite know what i'm asking lol. I don't wanna screw things up with this girl, but i'm not sure what to do or if she is losing interest.

Sounds like she just had homework to me, you're reading too much into it. Take this break as an opportunity to think of some things to talk about next time you're together if you feel the conversation could've been better last time.

[dude23]

Man, i hope so, because she's a really cool girl. I think i need to take her on a fun date, becasue this last one wasn't very fun. But i have no ideas at all! We live in a fairly small town, and there's not much to do. Any suggestions?

[Nomadic Intent]

Take it easy cowboy! It sounds like its all good. You have nothing to worry about. It DOES sound like its only homework.

 

Do take the downtime to come up with something fun to do for the both of you. Fun dates are more memorable.

 

Give her a few days before asking again. You don't wanna smother her!