what the hell is wrong with me

[John14087]

ok so to those of you who read my previous post know i messed up and i apologized for what i did and she accepted. now i have whole new problem i dont know how to fix. when we start makin love i start out hard, but i then i always think. i think what if i cant stay hard. its frustrating cuz i came two times last night but when we start again, theres nothing that can get me hard. the more i think about it, the harder it is to stay hard. i feel so bad and pathetic because she is trying so hard and i want to do it, but when i think that i just cant do it no matter how hard i try. its the only prob i have. i asked around and people say just focus on you and what you want but i dont know how to do that now! if i can stop thinking about it, i wont have a problem. what can i do to stop this vicious cycle

[-Sanguine-]

I may have misunderstood..

but you said you came twice, and then tried again and couldn't get hard...

 

isn't that normal? my boyfriend can only go once and then he's done for a little while. maybe just give it some time in between? :S

[Theblueman123]

Whenever guys orgasm your hard NATURALLY goes away. And it takes effort to keep it up. Just rest for 10-20 minutes and you should be fine.

[John14087]

yeah there was more than an hour in between. before i could go up to 5 times, now i always think that and nothing happens. i dunno how to get the thought outta my head because its the thought that is making me stay soft

[Cognitive_Canine]

Honestly, my boyfriend can orgasm once...and maybe, just maybe, twice.

 

I think you're worrying too much about this.