secretlover Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Simple question really. Just started a relationship with a girl a few weeks back and we now watch porn together, just wondered how many people do this. Link to comment
scared and alone Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 NO. But, I stopped caring if he watches it, even though he denies it. I'm not stupid. lol It's not a big deal to me anymore. Link to comment
babii doll Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 i watch with my fiancee occasionally. he has his own collection at home he watches, and sometimes i watch alone as well. not a big deal. Link to comment
LightbulbSun Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Never had a girlfriend, but I'm sure I would if they were open to it. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 We probably will down the line. We've talked about doing this. Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 haven't done it with past boyfriends, but we've checked out girls/guys together. since we didn't have sex that often (and didn't stay together long enough), we were still ok with the boring old vanilla sex, at the time. i'm sure if we stayed together, it would've eventually came up. don't know why girls have issues with porn lol. Link to comment
denise_14 Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 haven't done yet..so i'm also curious how it would be like, if ever. Link to comment
-Sanguine- Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 nope, but I think I'd like to. Link to comment
LivingToday Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Sad to see so many people accepting of pornography. Sigh...just my opinion, of course. Link to comment
LightbulbSun Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Sad to see so many people accepting of pornography. Sigh...just my opinion, of course. What's wrong with porn? I think some porn is fine. It's true that a lot of it is made with porn 'actresses' that are actually drug addicts, but there's also a lot of amateur porn out there (that is fine.) And as long as you don't expect your future or current girlfriend to want you to cum on her face, or do some of the stuff in porn, it's fine. I have a good imagination, and I enjoy fantasizing. I don't see the difference between watching a porn vid, and imagining yourself having sex with a female friend or celebrity (which I have done before.) It's just fantasy. Link to comment
Vince99 Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 i just wanted to take this thread as an opportunity to say i've been 100% porn free for 7 months. haven't cheated even once. and I hope i never go back. Link to comment
fLuiD Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 I have but not as a precursor to sex. We watched it in humor and just picking at some of the cheesiness of it. It seems to be fairly common to use porn to initiate sex. Im not sure I could do it though... Link to comment
LightbulbSun Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 I have but not as a precursor to sex. We watched it in humor and just picking at some of the cheesiness of it. It seems to be fairly common to use porn to initiate sex. Im not sure I could do it though... Oh yes, some of the porn movies are hilarious to watch and make fun of. Especially the mainstream ones...and the names. Link to comment
Puddincup Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 The names are pretty funny. I like how they name them "something dirty 34", like there were 33 similar ones before that one! I've watched with some BFs but not all. I really don't mind if a guy wants to watch it, even if we're doing it. I'm pretty liberal that way. Link to comment
LivingToday Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 What's wrong with porn? I think some porn is fine. It's true that a lot of it is made with porn 'actresses' that are actually drug addicts, but there's also a lot of amateur porn out there (that is fine.) And as long as you don't expect your future or current girlfriend to want you to cum on her face, or do some of the stuff in porn, it's fine. I have a good imagination, and I enjoy fantasizing. I don't see the difference between watching a porn vid, and imagining yourself having sex with a female friend or celebrity (which I have done before.) It's just fantasy. Religious reasons mostly. Obviously many don't agree with me so no point in explaining (plus forum rules unfortunately). Link to comment
LivingToday Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 i just wanted to take this thread as an opportunity to say i've been 100% porn free for 7 months. haven't cheated even once. and I hope i never go back. Good job man! Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 As a prelude to sex yes, unfortunately. During sex? Yes, unfortunately. Did I enjoy it? Nope. Link to comment
civilservant Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Didn't, haven't, wouldn't. If I can't get in the mood with my partner there what's the point? It's her I'm having sex with, not some drug addled porn star who fakes it for pay. Link to comment
greywolf Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 I have. It's funny. Sad to see so many people accepting of pornography. Sigh...just my opinion, of course. Your opinion is fine. Judging others is not. Link to comment
teabee Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 We did once but got too into our own sexual activity to pay much attention Link to comment
quirky Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 I've done it twice. The first guy really liked it, the other wasn't sure. I like it as an idea, just another thing to do occasionally. Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 What's wrong with porn? I think some porn is fine. It's true that a lot of it is made with porn 'actresses' that are actually drug addicts, but there's also a lot of amateur porn out there (that is fine.) And as long as you don't expect your future or current girlfriend to want you to cum on her face, or do some of the stuff in porn, it's fine. I have a good imagination, and I enjoy fantasizing. I don't see the difference between watching a porn vid, and imagining yourself having sex with a female friend or celebrity (which I have done before.) It's just fantasy. ya, the real porn turns me off anyway. it's so fake, it grosses me out. Link to comment
kenshinkitten Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 My boyfriend and I just did this for the first time last Monday, I thought I'd be jealous and not really enjoy it. But he was way more focused on us, we laughed at all the stupid parts and we had incredible sex. It's fun to act out the scenes the best you can, I would definitely do this again and I hope too. Link to comment
ibu Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Sure! I like porn! I watch it when he's there and when he isn't. And I don't mind if my partner watches it as well. Link to comment
oldenoughtoknow Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 I've done it a few times, usually after a few years (in a LTR) to occasionally spice things up a bit. Link to comment
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