She Says I'm Insensitive!!! 2nd day of NC...

[JAZZROCK]

Hello ENA so I decided to go NC after alot of thinking. As of right know I feel at peace but my ex is the problem. I told her I didn't want any contact from her and yet for the past two days she's been calling me non stop. Yes I wanted to pick up but i resisted it and didnt pick up. So now she sends me an email on how I'm changing and how I'm so insensitive to her feelings.

 

WOW! If you guys read my previous thread you will see how sensitive I was and how i got rejected. Now I give her space and I go NC she says im Insensitive and I dont know how to deal with a women who has emotions?

 

So ENA should i continue NC or should I respond to the email?

Also does women like a guy who's extremely sensitive or insensitive?

[GenoGeno]

She sounds just super immature...you should let her boil for a bit.

[Catdancer]

So ENA should i continue NC or should I respond to the email? stay NC

Also does women like a guy who's extremely sensitive or insensitive?somewhere in between. we dont like a sensitive crying pansey ass, but we dont like an insensitive jerk either

 

I answered in bold

[Catdancer]

She sounds just super immature...you should let her boil for a bit.

 

I heard the Psycho music in my head and had a mental picture of bunnies boiling after reading that. lol

[JAZZROCK]

You right. it looks like she wants me to suffer... I dont Know Im confused..

[iBroken]

Its really not hard.....

 

I would send her one last reply.

 

Tell her that you have made efforts to get back together and she is not interested. As a result, you are respecting her decision to end this relationship. Tell her it is not your intent to come off as insensitive however, you need time and space away from her to absorb and recover from the break up.

 

Wish her well in her endeavours, and tell her that as you have respected her decision to end this relationship, you ask that she respect your request for No Contact. Tell her one day, when the dust has settled and enough time has passed, maybe you guys can look at establishing a friendship.

 

If she replies to that, ignore it. Consider that your closing email and go STRICT NC.

 

Good luck

[JAZZROCK]

Thanks IBroken...

[shessofly]

wow! what is with people who break up with you expecting/demanding that you continue to treat them a certain way and keep in touch with them?! heeeeelllloooo...i'm not your bf/gf anymore, remember? they are on the crazy sauce!

[JAZZROCK]

lol that is true

[KG]

Maintain N/C. 'nuff said!